'Manchild': Ellen Adarna alleges husband Derek Ramsay cheated on her
Ellen Adarna set the internet abuzz after accusing her husband, Derek Ramsay, of cheating on her with a supposed side chick.
Breaking her silence on the rumored marital woes she's been having with the actor in recent weeks, the actress took to her Instagram stories to post screenshots of what appeared to be messages coming from her husband's alleged "side chick."
"Wow. The audacity era. Wow. Sad boi era. Wow. Victim. Wow Sympathy fishing," Ellen wrote, adding the hashtag "#manchild" without explicitly mentioning Derek in the post.
In her subsequent posts, Ellen posted screenshots showing the other woman seemingly ranting to her friend about her relationship with Derek.
"Kainis. Kelangan ko ba mag-reply sa lahat ng messages niya? Tapos he literally messages me everywhere—IG, WhatsApp, and text if I'm avoiding him. Parang puro excuse na lang siya always kaya ayoko na kausap," the woman's message read.
"I don't get why we have to keep talking pa if may Ellen na siya," she continued.
The woman appeared to express her frustration about how Derek had supposedly treated her like an afterthought.
"I know rin naman na when he's with her 'cause he doesn't post s-----t or doesn't make kulit. Para ma-feel niya 'yung na-feel ko, na binale-wala lang niya ako bigla," the message read. "I'm sure he's spending the day with her naman. LOL, total player moves."
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The messages were dated Feb. 13, 2021, but Ellen noted that she and Derek became officially together on Feb. 4, 2021.
"Nanahimik ka na lang sana because I've got receipts. This is just the beginning," Ellen warned.
When asked by a social media user why she decided to marry Derek if she knew that he was cheating, the actress clarified that she only found out about the alleged affair three weeks ago.
"Like, this month only. May nagsumbong sa akin," she said. "As much as I want to reveal who this girl is, I cannot. My lawyers advised me not to. I can get in trouble."
Ellen also stressed that the woman is not an ex-girlfriend of Derek.
"She's I think, a side chick. Not an ex-girlfriend, kawawa naman 'yung mga ex-girlfriend na walang kinalaman. I know this girl has always been there, they've been friends for decades," she said.
Derek has yet to address Ellen’s allegations as of writing.
The two have been the subject of breakup speculations for months now. They started when eagle-eyed social media users noticed that they haven't been posting photos of them together online. The split rumors were fueled when Ellen dropped "Ramsay" from her Instagram profile in October.
The pair tied the knot in November 2021 in Bagac, Bataan, and got married again in a Peruvian despacho ceremony led by a local shaman during their first anniversary.
They welcomed their first baby, Lily, in October 2024.
